Strong is he who lets himself be helped

When and to whom should you just say “Yes, thank you, I appreciate your help”?

In the relationship with your partner
After a ten-hour day at work, you can of course quickly rush to the beverage store or ask your mother-in-law how you are feeling. It would be wiser to agree on a clear division of tasks with Philipp or Paul: Teamwork relieves and brings people together.

In extreme situations with friends
Anyone who is dismissed during the probationary period or ends up in the hospital with a herniated disc does not have to play the heroine. At least those closest to you should know that the disappointment is immense and comforting visits are welcome.

To wealthy parents when money is at
stake Why stay in the undersized rental when mom and dad are offering to fund the home loan ? False pride makes life difficult. Grab it while the offer lasts!

To your best friend when decision-making assistance is required
The brand new date may be charming and attractive, but you can be waited on from start to finish, gossip about every gram too much and only pay for your own drink. It’s better to get advice from your girlfriend instead of trying to talk yourself into ugly quirks.

To professionals when you can no longer help yourself
Exhaustion, panic attacks, relationship stress? Conversations with psychotherapists are nothing more and nothing less than a first step out of the vicious circle. The admission requires courage, but in the long run brings more than the empty bottle of wine.

In the everyday life of strangers
Of course, you can also drag the pram down the stairs to the platform and leave the new IKEA furniture in front of the car because you can’t pick it up yourself. Smarter: Ask the nice guy from the next parking lot for help and say “Thank you!” with a smile.

Crystal Waston MD

Crystal Waston has a degree in Cross Media Production and Publishing. At vital.de she gives everyday tips and deals with topics related to women's health, sport, and nutrition.

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